I went through a period of time where my mind was telling me that mindset work was bullshit (eeek!). As a mindset coach, you can imagine how terrifying that felt, and as a woman-on-a-mission you can also imagine how frustrating that was.
But here's the thing: the mind is always going to try to keep you comfortable and safe in your make-believe warm little bed called "staying-where-you-are".
It wants you to STOP what you're doing, retreat to safety, and never again move a muscle towards anything scary or otherwise BIG. That's its job. And sometimes it does it REALLY WELL.
My mind is a minefield some days.
I know this about myself.
I also learned that I don't have to believe everything I think, and that it IS possible to flip the switch so I can start magnetizing instead of repelling.
Even when my mind wants to convince me that it's ALL bullshit.
1. NOTICE YOUR PATTERNS and when you start to unravel a little bit. You'll start to see that you have patterns of thought, patterns of action (or in-action) and patterns of retreating. The first way to start flipping the switch is to notice when you need to flip it.
2. MAKE A DECISION that you are going to step into a new role and identity. This isn't going to be comfortable or believable in the beginning. Don't let that wig you out. Just make a decision to trust that you can believe new things and start magnetizing more.
3. CHOOSE CONSISTENTLY. Changing your brain, your mindset, your ability to create results, your ability to magnetize, your ability to be visible ETCETERA, requires constant choices to be made by you. Every morning I write out a huge list of things I CHOOSE to believe. Show your mind how powerful you are by making the choice instead of letting things happen passively.
4. LOOK FOR EVIDENCE of what you want to believe being true. Has anyone else gotten there? Is anyone else magnetizing 5 clients this month? If anyone has done it, it's possible for you. Use evidence to your advantage, not to your detriment.
And ultimately? Take action. Take action. Take action.
You can absolutely start magnetizing what you want. Know what you offer, who you offer it to, and get out there and sell it. What stands between you and what you want is ultimately YOU.
Choose differently today.
You got this.